Tori Spelling is relying on second husband Dean McDermott to help her cope with the death of her father, because the media refuse to allow her any privacy. The former BEVERLY HILLS, 90210 actress became estranged from her late dad Aaron Spelling after she left her first husband CHARLIE SHANIAN last year (05) for married father-of-two DEAN MCDERMOTT. They wed in Fiji in May (06). But they reconciled shortly before the TV mogul died on 23 June (06), following a stroke, and Tori is still struggling to deal with her grief. She says, "I'm doing okay, just getting through. Life is life. You have good times, bad times, ups and downs. It's hard. "There's days you want to crawl under a rock and hide and just wish it would all go away, but being in the limelight, you know, that's the territory. "Everything is exposed about your life. As long as you have love and support in your life, you can get through anything."