"I had my first kids in my early twenties and my second kids in my mid-thirties, so I always seemed to be in my child-rearing years. The biggest thing that happened was my 15 year old deciding to go to boarding school. Then all of a sudden Rita and I were empty-nesters. That's not a crisis, that's a celebration!" Tom Hanks is enjoying life with his actress wife Rita Wilson now his kids are getting older.