SIDEWAYS star Virginia Madsen is struggling to find love because the only men that feel comfortable around her are toyboys. The 45-year-old actress has been happily single for a decade, but admits she's beginning to realise she'll have to date younger if she wants to find her ideal man. She tells US women's magazine More, "Men my age or older are intimidated by me. Younger guys are not! I mean, they're ready! But I don't have a lot in common with them."