"There's a sense of a future there, like I don't have to worry. I've had two (relationships) fail before, but when it's right and it's real, it feels good... The key, we found, is that we need to have the dedication to take care of ourselves and we do that. That's probably the sexiest thing ever!" Rocker Melissa Etheridge has finally found lasting love in her wife Linda Wallem after previously romancing actress Tami Lynn Michaels and Julie Cypher.