Actor Matt Dillon blames fame for his failure to find love, because it makes women play hard to get. The CRASH star, who famously dated his THERE'S SOMETHING ABOUT MARY co-star Cameron Diaz in the 1990s, has no intention of having a failed marriage, insisting he will only propose when he knows it will be forever. He tells gossip website The Scoop, "Sometimes it's tough because women think, 'Oh, he's used to getting what he wants.' "You get a little bit of that resistance toward you because you bring all this other stuff with you. "There's a lot of fish in the sea. Hopefully, you're only going to marry one girl. I want to make sure it's a relationship that works for everybody involved."