R+B star Mary J Blige counts Chaka Khan as her personal therapist, insisting the 1980s singer gives the best advice. The NO MORE DRAMA singer, who has battled poverty and drug addiction in the past, claims Khan's emotional support kept her out of therapy. She tells British gay magazine Attitude, "I've never been to a therapist. Chaka Khan gave me a good few lessons about giving it all away. She told me to forgive myself, to let whatever will be just be. "You deal with the stuff you can change and leave the other s**t to other people. That advice was good. So Chaka was my therapist."