The Three Amigos star's kid Oliver wed Alyssa Miller in August (16) and decided to use the family's lakeside retreat to host the nuptials, making the big day a bittersweet one for dad - because it brought back so many memories of his wife Nancy, who died in 2010.

"This cottage... was all her own thing," he tells Access Hollywood Live. "She bought this place in the dead of winter and I just showed up.

"Her presence was felt quite remarkable... They were married by a flagpole and we had the seats on a hill looking over the lake, and all of a sudden... a loon came up, a single loon, which is totally unusual and (called out) throughout the entire service... It was too unique."