"It's called the Red Room of pain and pleasure, so that made me want to go see what it is. On the last day of shooting... Sam (Taylor-Johnson), the director, said, 'Would you like to see it?' and I said, 'Yes, I definitely would.' I went in and it's beautiful. It's lovely, it's a luxury... That, for a woman like me, is the biggest fantasy of all. Maybe there will be a gazillionaire (sic) who will beat me and actually lavish things on me." Single actress Marcia Gay Harden would love to have a rich lover and a kinky sex room just like the one featured in the new Fifty Shades Of Grey movie. She portrays lead character Christian Grey's mother, Grace. The Oscar winner split from her husband Thaddaeus Scheel in 2012.