WILL + Grace beauty Debra Messing is "mad" at all the women she knows who have had children before her - because none of them warned her how tough motherhood would be.

The red-headed actress welcomed her son ROMAN into the world in April (04), and she admits that she was far from prepared for the tough times she'd face caring for her first child.

She says, "I'm mad at all of you (mothers) for lying to me! No one tells you how hard it's gonna be. No one gives you the real skinny, right? Maybe 'cause they're scared you'd never do it.

"You don't sleep for three months. Three months straight, no sleep whatsoever. But then all of a sudden, something changes and everything (calms down)."

15/09/2004 08:35