"My personal life is my personal life, but I will say this: If I had not gone through what I've gone through, I would not have been prepared to be in a relationship of any kind, much less in one with someone like Britney, who has the enormous heart that she does. I can't imagine. Everybody deserves to be loved." Britney Spears' new boyfriend Charlie Ebersol claims learning to love himself after being victimised by bullies as a kid has helped to prepare him for romance with the pop superstar.