All Saints singer MELANIE BLATT is "too shy" to find love again after splitting from long-term love STUART ZENDER last year (05). The PURE SHORES hitmaker, 31, and former Jamiroquai bassist Zender started dating in 1997 and have a seven-year-old daughter LILYELLA together. Blatt says, "I haven't been on any dates because I'm too shy. "Anyway, I like having only my rules in my house now. It's just me and my kid."